My Google Page Rank

The ironies of a fraternity brotherhood

PDFPrintE-mail

LIFE’S INSPIRATIONS: “… Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: `It is mine to avenge; I will repay,’ says the Lord…” (Romans 12:19, the Holy Bible).

RAMOS, TARLAC IN THE NEWS: My town, Ramos, in the eastern side of the province of Tarlac, rarely, if ever, gets into the news. It is small (comprising only nine barangays), rural (as farming is still generally the source of our townmates’ livelihood), and generally unaffected by what is going on around it, contented in the thought that many of its sons and daughters are trying to find their respective places under the sun, both here and abroad.

But in the last several days, Ramos, Tarlac is in the news, courtesy of the brutal killing of Mark Andrei Marcos, a 21 year old law student of San Beda Colllege who was a son of an engineer-father and a mother who passed away when he was still very young. The town, where both Mark Andrei and I grew up, is now in the limelight alright, but what a way for it to be in the limelight!

I condole with the Marcos family, particularly with Mark Andrei’s grandmother, Mrs. Guadalupe Ibarra Marcos, who was my grade six teacher, and her husband, former Regional Trial Court Judge Martonino Marcos. I grieve likewise for the father, Engr. Mac Ferdie “Bongbong” Marcos, whose dreams of having a lawyer-son was shattered by the very men whom Mark Andrei wanted to be his fraternity brothers.

MARK ANDREI’S DREAMS: The sad fact about this incident is that, Mark Andrei belonged to a rare breed of children from Ramos, Tarlac who wanted to become a lawyer and, much later on, to become a judge. Not many young men and women from the town wanted to become lawyers, not really because they didn’t feel qualified aspiring to become lawyers, but more because of poverty.

This was the reason why many in Ramos---even from those outside of the Marcos family---rejoiced when Mark Andrei decided to pursue studies in law. Qualified, competent, and coming from a family of lawyers---his aunt, Mariemier, sister of Engr. Mac Ferdie, is a lawyer, and his maternal uncles and grandparents from Camiling, Tarlac, are all lawyers---everybody believed his future as a lawyer was sealed, and would become true in just a matter of time.

Until the day that he was enticed to join a fraternity, of course, which now proved to be his undoing. This decision of Mark Andrei to become a frat man was a great surprise even to his pained grandfather, Judge Marcos, who rued the fact that he often warned his grandson against joining any fraternity in San Beda, on account of the still unresolved case of Marvin Reglos, also a hazing fatality.

THE IRONY OF A FRATERNITY BROTHERHOOD: Now, Mark Andrei is gone, and so are his youthful dreams and ambitions of sitting as a judge someday. The greatest and most painful irony here is that these dreams and ambitions, which brought him to San Beda in the first place, were cut short by the very persons who promised to help him fulfill them, if he joined their fraternity.

But, if I am to believe an uncle-lawyer of Mark Andrei, not everything went with Mark Andrei. The troubles of those who killed him are just starting, with a very strong warning aired on national TV, although veiled and disguised as a prayer: “I pray that the authorities will get the perpetrators first”.

I do not advocate revenge, for God said, “leave room for my wrath”. But, certainly, can we fault grieving relatives and people who loved the gentle and unassuming kid that was Mark Andrei if they entertain the notion that those who killed him should be held responsible for their misdeeds, whoever they maybe?

REACTIONS? Please call me at 0917 984 24 68, 0918 574 0193 or 0922 833 43 96. Email: batasmauricio@yahoo.com.

BY ATTY. BATAS MAURICIO



Related news items:
Newer news items:
Older news items:

Prev Next Page:

Celebrating half of my Life in the Philippines as an Adventure of Hope

04 May 2013 Hits:208

On May 9 this year I will celebrate my seventy first birthday. Reflecting on my life I realized that I have spent half of my life in the Philippines. When[...] Read more

Point of clarification on CPAF manifesto

04 May 2013 Hits:198

The MANIFESTO adopted by the CPAF family association Executive Board of Lamitan City, Basilan on its declaration of the noble commitment to support the candidacy in tandem of Madam Rosita[...] Read more

Don’t collapse talks, please!

02 May 2013 Hits:162

(Statement of JESUS G. DUREZA, President/CEO of Advocacy Mindanow Foundation, Inc. He was former Presidential Adviser on the Peace Process and GRP Panel Spokesman in the Talks with CPP/NPA/NDF.)I read[...] Read more

KAKAMPI KO ANG BATAS By Atty. Batas Mauricio

01 May 2013 Hits:186

RP still corrupt; “daang matuwid” fails? LIFE’S INSPIRATIONS: “…  However, if you do not obey the Lord your God and do not carefully follow all his commands and decrees I[...] Read more

VIABLE OPTION By: Bro. Paeng Santos

01 May 2013 Hits:140

Wake upAs Beng Climaco says, “Vaya con Dios”(Last of three)When you pursued a vocation to be in the service of the Lord, your heart’s desires pleases and honoured Him. God[...] Read more

Politicians keeping many Filipinos poor

30 Apr 2013 Hits:216

LIFE’S INSPIRATIONS: “… Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being[...] Read more

Abu Sayyaf, a monstrous murderers and kidnappers

30 Apr 2013 Hits:285

Despite the number of casualties that suffered from pursuing government forces, the Abu Sayaff terrorists have persisted in their kidnap-for-ransom operations. What is alarming here is that they have victimized[...] Read more

Wake up! As Beng Climaco says, “Vaya Con Dios”

30 Apr 2013 Hits:206

(Part Two of Three)To the readers of this column, as we continue from the first part of this article published yesterday, Viable Option would like to clarify why the honourable[...] Read more

KAKAMPI MO ANG BATAS By Atty. Batas Mauricio

29 Apr 2013 Hits:141

“Born again” vs. “born of God”: which is which?LIFE’S INSPIRATIONS: “… Jesus replied, `I tell you the solemn truth, unless a person is born from above, he cannot see the[...] Read more

VIABLE OPTION By: Bro. Paeng Santos

29 Apr 2013 Hits:91

Wake up!As Beng Climaco says, “Vaya Con Dios”(Part One of Three)The battle cry is still on. No Retreat, No Surrender! You are indeed very consistent. First the Mayoralty, now the[...] Read more

ADVOCACY MINDANOW by Jess G. Dureza

28 Apr 2013 Hits:129

Comele Chair Drama?The recent caper of COMELEC CHAIR BRILLANTES reminds me of that favorite medieval scenario: slaying one’s own self-invented IMAGINARY DRAGON to show how brave and heroic one is.[...] Read more

Jury system to fight smuggling?

27 Apr 2013 Hits:157

LIFE’S INSPIRATIONS: “… For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight…” (Ephesians 1:4, the Holy Bible). JURY SYSTEM[...] Read more

Vaya con Dios means “Go with God” and “Trust in the Lord”

27 Apr 2013 Hits:166

Life is made up of choices, and very often we have no idea what choice to make. Proverbs 3:5-6 reads: Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean[...] Read more

KAKAMPI MO ANG BATAS

25 Apr 2013 Hits:152

By Atty. Batas MauricioDisobedience causing continuing poverty in RP LIFE’S INSPIRATIONS: “… if you do not obey the Lord your God and do not carefully follow all his commands and[...] Read more

NEWS FEATURE: Disturbing events

25 Apr 2013 Hits:206

By  Menardo WenceslaoThere is something disturbing in the strings of events that involved the Communists Party of the Philippines-New Peoples Army and their legal fronts. Recall how they inveigled the[...] Read more

KAKAMPI KO ANG BATAS By Atty. Batas Mauricio

24 Apr 2013 Hits:168

Macalintal, more groups seek party list postponement LIFE’S INSPIRATIONS: “… whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant,  and whoever wants to be first must be slave[...] Read more

ADVOCACY MINDANOW By Jess G. Dureza

23 Apr 2013 Hits:696

Getting those bastards! These last few days, I was having some routine treatment at the Davao Doctor’s Hospital strapped — and immobilized — to a dextrose bottle. So I was[...] Read more

Inanities, rather than substance, in Comelec

20 Apr 2013 Hits:201

LIFE’S INSPIRATIONS: “… Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans…” (Proverbs 16:3, the Holy Bible). INANITIES, RATHER THAN SUBSTANCE: It’s a typical Sixto Brillantes[...] Read more